Getting the Women you Want

 

What women want.

Women want men who hold their own ground, who are relaxed and easy going, who aren’t angling to pick them up. He is:

Confident. Passionate about his life. Smells delicious. Smiles easily. Doesn’t try to too hard. A great listener.

How do you accomplish this? It’s easier than you think.

Ask yourself:
1. What am I good at?
2. What do I do that makes me feel most alive and right in the world?
3. With whom do I feel most relaxed, accepted and loved?
4. What are my favorite stories?
5. What makes me laugh, cry, get angry?
6. What do I want to give the people in my life, the world?
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How to meet, attract and date women?

The number one best way to make a connection is through a shared project, activity or learning experience. Take an adult ed class, volunteer with Habitat for Humanity, at a local soup kitchen or on a political campaign. Join your neighborhood association, hit the dog park every night after work or Saturday afternoons.

In shared activity, attraction and comfort have time to grow. Beautiful women are inundated with guys on the prowl proffering cheesy come ons. Women are poised to feel threatened, put off and cornered by men approaching them. The key is to position yourself as the other kind of guy. The one who hangs back, while being friendly, connecting but content to let her come to him. To truly elevate her interest it's imperative that you...

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Talking to women made easy with Conversation starters.

The gimmick: at a party recently, seconds after I walked in the door a man excitedly said, “You have to try the fried grasshoppers.” “Fried grasshoppers?” I repeated, “Really?” “Yes, right here,” he pointed to a ceramic soup bowl teaming with brown, crispy insect torsos, surrounded by amputed tiny ashen legs. “Ok,” I offered, “I’ll eat one if you eat one with me.” He agreed. Then I observed, “Hey, no fair - you have a chaser (he was holding an open beer).” He offered to share if I needed to wash down the antennae. (I took him up on it). And there we were off on an adventure together. Two strangers. What a great welcome to a gathering bursting with people I didn’t know. I was a part of something, already having fun and friendly with at least one quirky, outgoing soul. When I found myself in the same corner of the kitchen with him later in the evening, we struck up an easy conversation that never felt like anyone was hitting on anyone but rather like we were getting acquainted...

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How to seduce her.

Tease: If you’re sitting side-by-side watching a play, putting your hand next to hers on the bench, just lightly touch your hand to hers - so subtly that perhaps only the baby hairs on your hands are actually in contact with each other. When intimacy is new less is more and you always want to leave her wanting more, more, more! Your caresses should be delicate, brief and tentative. It's the unkown that is thriliing. If you're heavy handed, you lack mystery - she knows exactly what you're going to do next: totally boring! Think of it as whispering versus yelling. You have to stop what you’re doing and pay full attention to hear a whispered word. It takes on a power that a loudly spoken, clearly articulated utterance doesn’t have.... For More: Order Getting the Women you Want

 

What four things do women need to experience mind blowing sex?

Safety – The woman you are with needs to feel she is utterly secure. This means she feels comfortable with you, the surroundings – i.e. you’re in a clean, private location not the back of a car, out of doors or one door down from your mom and dad’s or roommates bedroom.

• Trust – she knows you genuinely care about her well-being, won’t harm her and further that you won’t judge her. In order to let go, women have to feel utterly unselfconscious with you..... For More: Order Getting the Women you Want

 

Sensuality that drives her crazy.

Women fall hopelessly in love with the men who are able to unleash their sensuality and bring them to the heights of ecstasy. I've talked about the conditions that women require emotionally, physically and logistically to get in the mood but what exactly do you do? In what order do your touch which erogenous zones..... For More: Order Getting the Women you Want

 

What, where and how: the ultimate G-spot guide.

The G-spot has been the subject of ongoing controversy. Where it’s located, whether every woman has one and whether it even exists are all questioned. What we know is that there is an area of spongy, erectile tissue along the inside of the vaginal wall just above the urethra and below the clitoris that becomes enlarged and firm with arousal. I'm in agreement with the theory that the G-spot is simply the inner part of the clitoris and my G-spot orgasms feel exactly like my clitoral orgasms. The difference is in how my G-spot is stimulated..... For More: Order Getting the Women you Want

 

What she really means when she says...

Body language is a simple science. Mastering the basics will allow you to both clue in to who has the hots for you as well as assist you in avoiding women who aren't really interested but seem to be saying otherwise. Women are socialized to be polite as as such are loathe to reject someone even when that's exactly what we intend to do. Body language indicating disinterest: Blockades - She'll create barriers between herself and you by crossing her arms, clutching her books to her chest, holding up a menu, waving hello or goodbye with her hand in front of her face or covering her mouth or part of her face while she talks to you. Cute though the gestures may be, she’s placed interference in the space where connection might have taken place..... For More: Order Getting the Women you Want